Landing in Your dreams (5 things - Week 73)

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This is the second part of an earlier post, "Leap of Faith". For continuity, it is recommended that you read this post after going through the previous episode in this series.

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I hope you understand the concept of alternate universe. If not, allow me to demonstrate the concept with a simple situation, which you would have come across in your life.

Imagine that you are driving to meet a friend of yours. You know the address, but not the way to reach there. If you arrive at an unknown junction, with no soul in sight to ask for directions, you will make a choice on which road to take to continue your journey. After you make a choice, you follow that road and reach your destination. And that's your universe.

But if you had chosen another path to take you forward, then it is entirely plausible that you would have encountered a completely different journey. A journey which shares nothing in common with your current universe, but for the starting point. And that journey is supposedly been undertaken in an alternate universe.

So, in an alternate universe, I'm writing this blog post from Gurgaon. I'm quite happy with the progression I've made in the organization, having completed four years at the office. One more year and I'll be getting a gold coin to commemorate my services to the company. My marriage would have been fixed, with the ceremony to be held within this year. I would be double checking the tickets I booked for coming home for Onam next month, just to make sure that I didn't get anything wrong in it.

In that alternate universe, I didn't take the Leap of Faith.

But I'm in this universe with you. You join me as I write this from my home in Thiruvananthapuram. I'm looking forward to receiving the offer letter that would indicate the completion of the first phase of the leap. The thoughts of marriage are as far as they ever were. And I'm with my family more often than not these days. Everything that I expected, and more, have been obtained from the leap - the decision I took to change my field of career completely, after investing successfully for three years in the previous one.

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Right now, it feels like I had been given an objective question to answer by someone - let it be God or Devil, Fate or Destiny.

"Choose to live out any one of the following dream of yours.

1. The family - being as close to them as possible so that I can support them as they have supported me.

2. The job - being in a job which utilizes the best skillset of mine (programming).

3. The city - being able to settle down here in Thiruvananthapuram.

4. The bonus - the bonus can be discussed only in abstract terms right now due to its volatile nature. Don't worry, I'll let you know about it soon enough.

5. All of the above"

Well, I didn't need to think twice before opting for option No.5. And so here I am, starting to live my dream of working in a good job in my own city, being close to my family, and with the bonus in my grasp nonetheless. I took the Leap of Faith and I've Landed in my Dreams.

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And do you know what the best part is?? By making that decision to follow my dream, and by the chastising experiences over the past ten months, I feel more mature and accomplished, content and happy, confident and ready to face all oncoming challenges head on. I could try and forge sentences to inspire you to follow your dreams, but I feel that my own personal experience would suffice.

But just in case you are interested in hearing inspiring quotes on the same, we'll be having five of them as the "5 things" for this week. Let's start, shall we??

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1. Steve Goodier

“Leaving what feels secure behind and following the beckoning of our hearts doesn't always end as we expect or hope. We may even fail. But here's the payoff: it can also be amazing and wonderful and immensely satisfying.” 

2. Isabel Lopez

“If you can’t believe in miracles, then believe in yourself. When you want something bad enough, let that drive push you to make it happen. Sometimes you’ll run into brick walls that are put there to test you. Find a way around them and stay focused on your dream. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.” 

3. Moffat Machingura

“Follow your dreams. I am not saying it’s going to be easy, but I am saying it’s going to be worth it."

4. Billy Joel

“You can get what you want or you can just get old.” 

5.  Paulo Coelho in Adultery has summed it up pretty nicely in the following words.

"Going after a dream has a price. But however costly it may be, it is never as high as the price paid by people who didn't live."

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The iconic representation and the source of the term "Leap of faith" came from the following picture.

I wish I was a bit more skilled in digital art work. If that was the case, I would have turned up with a better depiction of landing in your dreams that this.

It's obvious that I gained a few pounds during that jump, right?? Can't ask for a better depiction than that, I guess.

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Like I mentioned before, I understand truly well that landing here is just the beginning. To continue living this dream, I would have to put in tremendous amount of effort, maybe more than what I already did to get so far. But now I know that dreams do come true. Now, I know that if I strive hard for it, it'll come to me one day or another. It might be a cliche to quote this from "The Alchemist" now, but it is true in it's entirety.

"And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it."

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So, that's all for this week then.
Have a great weekend!!
'til next week.

It's not as easy as it looks (5 things - Week 72)

I know I know I know.

Today is our Independence Day. And the entire nation just celebrated it with renewed vigour, as we have always seen over the years [This is the 68th year of Independence.] But if you are here hopeful of reading another patriotic prose, well, let me redirect you to two of our previous articles - from last year's Independence day and from this year's Republic day.

Happy Independence Day!!!

As for today, I don't feel any compelling reason to write an article on India just because it is our Independence day. I don't want to set a tone of patriotism which is visible only on National Holidays. That is not to say that I didn't take part in the celebrations today - I proudly walked with my head held high and a tricolor pinned onto my shirt.

But that is not to say I don't have any patriotic message to share with you. I've shared the following video multiple times with you, and I am not going to stop now. Go ahead, watch the silent national anthem and get your share of patriotic goosebumps.



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As our last week's guest post writer found out to her amusement, churning out a bit of prose within a time limit is not an easy task. "It's not easy as it looks." - her words, not mine. Those words spurned me onto thinking about other such stuff which we think is pretty easy, but actually requires a lot of hard work, patience and dedication.

And so, for this week's '5 things', we'll be having a look at five such things.

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1. A working Mom

I don't think I will have to explain too much about this. A working mom, who wants to balance her career and her family, without losing any important moment in both is really a miracle in execution. I've had the chance to meet quite a few such women and I take my metaphoric hat off to them.

2. Begging

Ok. Surprise inclusion alert. You would think how come this is in the "not as easy as it looks" category. Let me tell you something. Human emotions can drive them to do crazy things. The feeling of hunger is one such emotion, the effects of which are many. We've heard stories of people stealing food and/or other items to make sure that they have a morsel of food to sate their hunger. But the chances of them turning to begging to get some money to do the same are not many. You know why?? To do that they would have to let go of their ego, their pride. But I guess it is easier to do something illegal than to do something which hurts your pride.

3. Keeping a class of students in discipline

The only opportunity I got to teach a class of students was way back in 2006, when for Teacher's Days, the 12th standard students would come and teach their juniors. Suffice to say I wasn't successful in keeping them quite for the half hour or so alloted to me. You have to respect and admire the teachers who can keep a class in check with only a glare.

4. Crossing the road in Hyderabad

a. Look Right.
b. Then look left.
c. Look Right again.
d. If there's no immediate incoming traffic, cross the road.

The way I was explained the rules of crossing the road were found to be naive at best when applied on the roads of this city. After almost three weeks in the city, these are the self formulated rules on crossing the road that I've to share with you.

a. Look Right, gauge the number and speed of incoming traffic.
b. Look Left and do the same.
c. Repeat the previous two steps until you can find some sort of rhythm to the traffic.
d. Find a herd waiting to cross the road (or at least one co-crosser) and stick to them, if you are not finding any rhythm.
e. Make sure that your legs are ready to perform the sprint function as soon as the command is issued from the brain.
f. As soon as you find an opportune moment, start running across the road (flailing your arms at this juncture is a recommended procedure to attract attention of incoming drivers.)
g. If you are not in a pool of blood, you've crossed the road.

You would think that it is fairly simple, but that was for crossing a one way road. I'm yet to write it down yet, but the alphabet series would be insufficient to jot down the rules of crossing a four way junction in Hyderabad.

5. Finding Love

We've seen it a thousand times in the movies and the books. The protagonist finds his/her complimentary soul in the easiest of manners. All they have to do is to be at the right place at the right time. Unfortunately, for the less-protagonist souls among us, this doesn't happen, ever. I can say with full conviction that finding love is not as easy as it looks.

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I know I know I know.

After publishing the guest post last week, I did promise you that I would write a post myself. But I wasn't able to. All my creative resources were effectively employed elsewhere. At the end of the day, I wasn't able to bring myself to sitting down in front of the laptop and to give you some food for thought.

Keeping all that aside, I would like to give you my word that I'll be publishing the second part of my 'Leap of faith' series next friday. The jump I made during November 2013 reaches it's landing point over the next week. And in the next post, I'll describe to you how it felt to take the jump from "what I am", then to be caught high up in the air, then about getting swayed left and right in the winds, and how I pinched the bonus point, before, hopefully, landing safely at the point of "where I want to be".

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Look forward to this space next week then.
Have a great weekend!!
'til next week.

Guest Post : Escape through books (5 things - Week 71)

So, as I was saying last week, I'm currently facing unforeseen circumstances on a top secret mission at an undisclosed location. What are you saying? Oh!! So you are saying that I said I'm at Hyderabad last week?? Well then, I'm facing unforeseen circumstances on a top secret mission at a previously disclosed location. Which brings us to today's post.

Due to yours truly being temporarily disposed of, I requested our last guest writer Saiprasad, my dear brother to write today's post. Mr."I can't work creatively with deadlines" declined. And I turned to my close friend, Sreerenjini, who after some persuassion decided to indulge us with a short post on the books which influenced her. So, without further ado, here's what she has to say. Enjoy!!!

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Are you are one of those who fall madly, deeply and passionately in love with books, right from when you learned do read?? Then, you would know that feeling when you get a new book in your hands. That book you always wanted to read, with that crisp aroma of new paper and freshly printed ink.

As it hurts to take a break in between, you carry it wherever you go - reading it at the dinner table, reading it when we should be studying, reading it late into the night, until we finish the last sentence in it, and are left on the threshold of reality again.

While other people think about it as ”it is just a book”, we fully enjoy the experience - making the plot our own. When we turn that last page, we know that those words have touched our souls forever and those characters are going to stay with us for a while - well, at least until when we start the next book.

But have you ever wondered what are we looking for?? Is it to get lost in that world, or to get the answers to some unknown questions?? Like someone said, books are great healers - they provide us with a way to seek answers. Or maybe, it just gives us a chance to explore something unusual, a world we couldn't explore otherwise. Reading is a true adventure, which is filled with new discoveries and self-fulfillment.

The amount a book can influence us is related to how much we, as the reader, could relate to it. It is not just the “answers” or knowing the unknown factor. We can be involved in a book upto any level that we desire - from being the protagonist to being a spectator. But when we close it, we are back in the real world, but only after experimenting with the plot through the characters.

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She actually didn't read the memo which said that "When you jump from prologue to the bullet points, say something to the effect of '5 things for this week are'." So, I am here to bridge the gap. For the "5 things" for this week, we'll have the five books that have influenced our author. Here they are.

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1. The Harry Potter series

Many of you would call it as a children’s book, but to me, it is one of the most beautifuly written piece of literature ever. It taught me that good always triumphs over evil. Darkness is always vanquished by light, and life is all about the choices you make - they define who you are. And that "help always finds those who deserve it.” As a child, growing up with the magic of harry potter and the life he had with his friends, truly made my life a bit more magical.

2. God Of Small Things

God of small things brought me back to the bitter truth of life - that everything is not always fair and that bad things sometimes do happen to good people. The way Arundhati roy broke my heart while still making me smile is a true mark of her writing skills. Esthapan and Rahel taught me that you may leave behind your childhood innocence, but never down the lane do we really lose it.

3. The Girl With Dragon Tattoo

"The girl with dragon tattoo" was another eye opener. It taught me the depths of emotions that a woman goes through - how she can be good and bad, beautiful and grotesque, light and dark - all at the same time. How a man - be it your father, your brother, or a complete stranger - can ruin your life, and force you to take decisions that have repercussions, which are beyond your control.

4. A Thousand splendid suns

This is another book which is very close to my heart. The life lessons that I learned from Mariam and Laila‘s friendship will remain forever in my heart. They taught me that love is unconditional, and the sacrifices you make for the people you love are truly what makes you a good human being. Mariam found a sister in Laila, and their relationship touched me more than the love story that was conveyed through the book.

5. Brida

Another masterpiece from none other than Paulo Coelho, the man who performs miracles with words. There will be a phase in every girl's life, where she could relate to Brida and her journey. Since I was going through such a phase when I read that book, it will remain close to me forever - finding her own destiny, the soul searching.

Don't tell me that you wouldn't like to meet your soulmate like brida found hers. Every girl who read this book would wish to see that point of light above the shoulders of her man. After so many romantic novels, the classics and the crap. it was the first book which put a little bit of logic into the concept of soul mate. 

”When you find your path, you must not be afraid. You need to have sufficient courage to make mistakes. Disappointment, defeat and despair are the tools god uses to show us the way”

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Well, thank you very much for those insights. Hopefully, we'll have more inputs from our latest guest writer.

And for those of you, whose weekend gets ruined without having a post from me, don't worry. With all things going fine, I'll be publishing a post in the next 48 hours. The content and tone of the post depends on what happens in between now and then though.

I could leave you on a suspense there, but that's not me. I'll go ahead and make fun of the person who helped me out with the post today with this pic.

Not that being a bookworm is a bad thing. This was just for humor.

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Well, that's all for this week.

Hope you have a great weekend.
I'll be here missing my lovely Thironthoram.

'til next week.

Of pearls, biriyanis and more (5 things - Week 70)

Hello and welcome to a brand new weekend. This time from Hyderabad. Yours truly, in the course of the flow of his life, is being temporarily accommodated in the city of pearls. Being a part of a top secret mission, I'm not at the liberty of discussing the purpose and aim of me being here. Though I think the fact that I've already mentioned my location would be detrimental to my mission.

Leave that all aside. Here are some of the stuff I came across on my wanderings around this city.

ok.. it might just be another flower market. But it has such a vibrant feel to it.

that is by some distance the BIGGEST chandelier I've seen..

who doesn't love an old style Royal Enfield.

Let's talk about this city now. First off, this is not my first time in the city. I was here some five years before as a part of the "industrial visits" that are part of our B.Tech curriculum. I can't for the love of God remember which company we visited then. But I do remember the main tourist places of the city we went to. Surprisingly, I don't have any residual impression of the city. So, arriving here now and taking in the sights, it felt like I was here for the first time.

I'll have to say that even though I was impressed by the multitudes of flyovers and underpasses and an under-construction metro (these imply heavy traffic which is a sure sign of progress), and the phelotra of brands having multiple outlets across the city (these imply that the people have more money to burn than is necessary), I was a bit let down by the general level of craziness that is enveloping the city.

Believe me, I know crazy. I had been at Delhi far too long to not know proper craziness - the tangled roads, the long stops at red lights, the rule breaking auto-mobiles, the unkempt roads, the mix of people from a variety of ways of life, etc etc. But then again, it was proper craziness. That means that it was within a limit.

I don't know whether it's specific to the locality that I'm at, but Hyderabad is yet to show that it is of the proper craziness type. And I remember that this was my first impression of Delhi. Heck, it is the first impression I have of any city than my own.

P.S In case you are wondering, I'm yet to find a city as good as my Thiruvananthapuram.

So, I'm going to give this city what I gave Delhi. A second chance. Over the weekend and beyond, I plan to go around the city, visit more places - tourist and other-wise - and then I'll pass my judgement on where this city comes in my "List of favorite cities".

So, where am I going to go?? Well, those places are the "5 things" for this week.

P.S. I'll be using the words from wikipedia to describe the places I haven't visited before. So, a thanks in advance to the many unseen hands spreading knowledge throughout the world.

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1. Char Minar

The Charminar, built in 1591 CE, is a monument and mosque located in Hyderabad, Telangana, India. The landmark has become a global icon of Hyderabad, listed among the most recognized structures of India. The English name is a translation and combination of the Urdu words Chār and Minar, translating to "Four Towers"; the eponymous towers are ornate minarets attached and supported by four grand arches.

2. Snow World

I've been here last time around and what an experience it was. For a reasonable price they let you into a room which will be kept at around -5°C for the next hour or so. If in the September of 2009, someone had told me that it would be a good training programme for braving the cold winters of Delhi I would have to face from December 2010, then I wouldn't have got out of the room a good twenty minutes before.

3. Golkonda

Golkonda, also known as Golconda or Golla konda ("shepherd's hill"), a ruined fort of Southern India and capital of medieval Golconda Sultanate (c.1518–1687), is situated 11 km west of Hyderabad. It is also a mandal of Hyderabad District. The region is universally famous for the mines that have produced the world's most famous and coveted gems, including the Hope Diamond, The Eye of the Idol (aka the Nassak Diamond), the Koh-i-Noor and the Darya-i-Noor.

4. Ramoji Film City

Well, what can I say about this magnificent place. I could write a whole post on the things I saw at this place when I visited it last time around. You'll feel that much closer to the glamour and inner workings of the movie world. Last time around, we were oblivious to the photo opportunities at the place. But equipped with better equipment and more intent mindset, we'll be setting out to get enough profile pictures to last the year.

5. Dum Biriyani

I typed those words and I'm already salivating. After having lots of "imitation" Hyderabadi dum biriyanis - from Trivandrum to Delhi - I'm hoping to have my first taste of the real stuff in the city of its origin. Hopefully, it'll be worth the name it has.

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Hopefully, next week, I'll have first hand pictures from all these places. Of course, it'll be all be selfies. I'm going mad on selfies these days. But that is for another post.

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So, we were roaming around this city and we came across this. The BIGGEST MEGA SUPER DUPER BLOCKBUSTER HIT in Malayalam cinemas in recent times, "Drishyam" was recently remade and released in Telegu. And here's one theatre showing the same. Don't be mislead by the lack of crowd - we arrived at the premises after the evening show started. Don't ignore the superlatives I used for the movie - I know it might have come across as sarcastic. This movie is that good.

P.S. You can always watch the movie it was "inspired" from - Perfect number.

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All pictures of the city are courtesy of Roshin's Photography. Go on. Visit the page and view the visual treats he has to offer. He clicks the most beautiful of clicks using just his mobile's camera.

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Well, that's all for this week.

Hope you have a great weekend.
I'll be here missing my lovely Thironthoram.

'til next week.

Random five (5 things - Week 69)

This week we'll have a very short post with almost no prologue or epilogue. You all have been pampered with long posts in the past few weeks. As I'll be out of town starting this week, with no specific date set for my return to my "thironthoram", I'm not in a situation to churn out 1000 words for your consumption. Rather, I'll be using a mix of already composed work from external sources (when have I not, right?? ).

And most importantly, this is going to be a random post. I checked, and the last time we had one of these was way back in week 63. So, without further ado, let's get into it, shall we??

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1. Sex education in India

Now, this video was going viral last week. Though there wasn't any sex education class when I was in school, I can imagine them being something very similar to what's portrayed here. Have a look, if you can handle the word "S-E-X".



2. Epic 404 page

HTTP 404 is an error code indicating that the web server was unable to return the page/link we are trying to access right now. Usual 404 pages look like this.

Well, the people at Association for Computing Machinery, University of Illinois decided to make something more interesting than that. They came out with a poignant web server which dumps all its emotional baggage onto you. Check it out at

http://www.acm.uiuc.edu/404

3. Photobomb level - QUEEN

The following photo was taken at the XX Commonwealth Games which is currently taking place at Glasgow. And in case you don't know what photobombing means, I'll explain. It is when you have an unexpected intrusion (human, animal or object) into the photo that you were taking.

If I have to explain this to you, NEVER MIND!! :-/

4. HARI SADU

An advertisement I hated because of the naming issues I had with the main character. But still a great ad nonetheless.

5. Inch-by-Inch

There are all kinds of speeches. Well, the next four minute video that I've for you is one of the best I've heard in all my life. Facing an uphill task to overturn a deficit in the crunch game, the coach gives a speech, a team talk at halftime. If you don't get goosebumps at the end of four minutes, you were not paying attention. The movie is "Any given sunday". Oh!! The coach is played by some guy called Al Pacino.



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Just one more question before I let you get back to your weekend. How close do you have to be with someone to ask them what they do with their nose pickings?? I'll leave you with that thought.

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Well, that's all for this week.

Hope you have a great weekend.

'til next week.