Thank You (5 things - Week 37)

By the time I push the publish button for this post, I'll be waiting to board my flight back home. It has been a journey of three and a half years in the making. In this long trudge we call Life, these 40 odd months might look like nothing more than a short detour. But it was worth it.

I thought of going in deep about my experience here. But the more I dwell on the memories that have been made here, the more I feel like I'm leaving something significant behind. So, I'm going to keep it short. I'll just point out what I've gained because I came here.

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1. It might seem confusing, but I learnt more about Kerala by coming over here.

I've never been able to enjoy the wide spectrum of people in Kerala because I lived in the south part of it for most of my life, and most of my close friends were from my area itself. After coming here, I've been in the company of a variety of individuals, from almost every district in my little state. And with a lot of help from them, I got to know the various slang of Malayalam language, the different delicacies that you get at the other places, the difference in behaviour and customs and a lot more.

To put it in a nutshell, I'm going to visit every place that they have told me about in the past three years, because I've fallen more in love with Kerala after coming here.

2. I understood that the stereotyping occurs both ways. 

I've seen enough films in Hindi as well as in Malayalam to know the stereotyping that occurs across the language barrier. To tell the truth, the way south Indians are depicted in Hindi movies, and the way north Indians are depicted in the southern film industries are pathetic. These characters are used as tools for producing 'funny' situations, which are clichéd and baseless.

What I understood after coming here is that in spite of all this, a large contingent of the people here know that we south Indians are more than idli, sambhar, dhoti and a moustache. And I was pleasantly surprised to find that the people here are open, big hearted, kind and wonderful.

3. Life in a METRO is something you've to experience by living in it.

I've been to metro cities before. I've seen the exotic cars, the uber cool people and the horizon full of high rises. But it is a lot more than that. I don't know how to put that in words. Like I said, you've to live in a metro to experience how fantastic it is.

4. I learnt that the weather can be both too hot or too cold.

Coming from a temperate region, the only 'too much' that I had to experience in terms of weather was rain. Delhi broke through the barriers of the highest and lowest temperatures that I've experienced. I've been made terribly uncomfortable by the weather - at 50 deg Celsius as well as at 1 deg Celsius. Even though much worse conditions exist elsewhere in this world, this experience will help me, if there is ever a need for me to be at such a place.

5. I am writing this post.

I've said it many times before, and I'll say it yet again. Thank you Mahavir. I hope he's having a good time in Seoul, in spite of the snow and the cold. It was due to him that I posted something here in March, after a gap of some months - and that was about the cultural shock that I experienced when I came over here. It was due to that post that I decided to write weekly. And so I thank him for pushing me on to this writing spree.

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So, to wrap it up, for what might be my last post to be published from Delhi for a long time, I would like to say Thank you.

To all you awesome people I had the good fortune to meet here.

To all the wonderful memories that we have made.

To all the highs and the lows,

To all the opportunities and the disappointments

To all the Momo-walas, and the dhaba-walas,

To all the KFCs, McDs and Dominos,

To the Pallika bazaar and the Select City Walk Mall,

To all the gorgeous ladies who had come into my ken.

I say Thank you. Cos you've made the past three years one of the most memorable periods in my life.

Well, that's it for this week.

You all have a great weekend.

'til next week.