5 things for this week (Part 19)

I just got off the phone after talking to a special person. Even though he is just about two years old, he has become a maverick at home, wooing and amusing all who are there with his antics. In between his calls of "Maama*!! Maama!!", he was trying to tell me about this cooker he was playing with.

*Mama is Uncle in Malayalam

I'm told that his reaction to the cooker is rather amusing, and depends entirely on the place where it is resting. All places bar the stove means that he is the master - he can lift it up, throw it around, bang it on the ground, play with it for an eternity as it may seem.

But when the said cooker is placed on the stove (the stove hasn't to be lit; it just has to be there on the stove), you won't find him within 10 feet of it. He'll seen hiding behind the curtain on the door frame, trying to sneak a peak of whether someone is going to move his "toy" into a more non-hazardous area.

Even if you try to take him near to the cooker, he will start getting agitated, screaming "Shoo!! Shoo!!", referring to the obnoxious sound that emanates from his favorite toy.

After he got bored with talking to the phone which sounded like his Maaman, he started asking my mother to take him back to the cooker. So, my mother gave the phone to my father to cut the call.

As I was saying my regards, I heard something in the background. Cries of "ALLAH HO AKBAR!!!" from the mosque near my home. Since my blog this week is themed on "ISLAM", with it being Eid, you might think that this is suspiciously convenient for me, but I think of it as nothing more than a happy coincidence. A sort of "you are doing things the right way" signal from someone above us.

Coming back to the cries that I heard, I still remember the early mornings I used to have on exam days. Roughly two and a half minutes after I had snoozed my first alarm, I would be jolted out of my half-sleepy state by this cry ringing out clear and loud from the mosque nearby. It was God's alarm to remind me that I had about two hours to mug up some more so that I don't face more problems than necessary at the exam.

Living at a place which was two minutes away from a temple and a mosque meant that I never thought of people from other religion as something different. I didn't need someone to teach me the customs and practices of people from other religions are different to mine. I observed as much in my daily life. I believe that this is a far better tool to make us less bitter in the inside.

I've been always been horrified at all the hate I've heard about, and recently seen, towards this particular sect of our fellow denizens. Like I said before, maybe it's because I've never thought of them as any different to us.

If we are going to blame a community for the doings of a few among them, then think of all the things that the earth will be blaming on the seven billion of us living on her.

If we are going to retaliate on the whole for the act of a few, then think of how you will protect yourself, if all the animals in the world retaliated for the cruelty hurled upon them by a few.

Most of us would have seen the above picture in some social networking site, and had a laugh - if not at the apparent stereotyping, then at the levels to which humans have degraded themselves to.

I know it is hard to change the views that you have had for years, but I think if you can be a bit more lenient in your thoughts and words, then this world can be a better place for everyone here.

"There's already enough hate in this world without you adding to it."

It's a cliche, but such cliches exist because we can't seem to follow what it says.

So, as my little step towards fostering an amicable relation towards the followers of Islam from the rest of us, today's "5 things" will be about the customs, practices and rituals of Muslims.

Shall we begin then?? Alrighty then.

Did you know...

1. ...that the religions of Islam is based upon the "Five pillars of Islam"?

They make up Muslim life, prayer, concern for the needy, self purification and the pilgrimage. They are :

1. Shahadah (belief or confession of faith)
2. Salat (worship in the form of prayer)
3. Sawm Ramadan (fasting during the month of Ramadan)
4. Zakat (alms or charitable giving)
5. Hajj (the pilgrimage to Mecca at least once in a lifetime.

2. ...that Muslims fast in the month of Ramadan because they feel that it brings them closer to God?

In the month when the Quran was revealed, Muslims all over the world fast from sunrise to sunset. They abstain from eating, drinking and conjugal relationships for that time over a period of month as a penance. This carries a significant spiritual meaning for them. It teaches one the principle of love: because when one observes fasting, it is done out of deep love for God and to learn self-restraint. Also, this enables them to feel compassion at the plight of those who are less fortunate than them.

3. ...that the Hajj is the largest gathering of people around the world every year?

As a part of the "Five pillars of Islam", it is the religious duty of every able-bodied Muslim, who can afford to, to go for pilgrimage, at least once in his or her lifetime. As a part of this, millions of believers folk to the city of Mecca, Saudi Arabia to fulfill their duty.

4. ...that a believer must pray five times a day?

This prayer is the cries to the God that I heard as I grew up. Called Salah, this ritual consists of repeating a set of prescribed actions and words. Obligatory salah is prescribed at five periods of the day. These are measured according to the movement of the sun. These are: near dawn, after midday has passed and the sun starts to tilt downwards / Noon, in the afternoon, just after sunset and around nightfall.

5. ...that the Muslims believe that Jesus is a prophet?

Now, before I cause any unnecessary controversy, let me make my point clear. If you would be kind enough to click on that link you will read the following,

"Muslims believe that God had previously revealed Himself to the earlier prophets of the Jews and Christians, such as Abraham, Moses, and Jesus. Muslims therefore accept the teachings of both the Jewish Torah and the Christian Gospels. They believe that Islam is the perfection of the religion revealed first to Abraham (who is considered the first Muslim) and later to other prophets"

(and an extra one for today)

...that the food at Muslim wedding is unbelievable?

Unbelievable because of the variety of dishes served. Unbelievable because of the taste of the served dishes. Unbelievable because of the amount of the dishes you would treat yourself to. You have to go to one to understand how good it is.

Another surprisingly convincing thing in this blog will be that my neighbour (who is a Muslim) is getting married on the 15th of this month, and as my luck would have it, I'm at home from that day for my second vacation of the year. You would think that I would now go on and gloat about me having a non vegetarian feast on the day I reach home, but no, I won't do that.

Why?

Because I'm a vegetarian on Thursdays.

Why?

I'll tell you some other time. I'm now off to buy a toy cooker.

See you all next week.

Have a great weekend!!!

The purpose of THIS

I came across this image on the internet in the recent past.

If you can't see the image, here is what's written in it.

"Time changes everything.
That's what people say. It's not true.
Doing things changes things. Not doing things leaves them exactly as they were."

I came across all this and more at a site called "quora". There, they have civilized discussions on all topics under the sun, from "what's your opinion about a guy who worked as a professional footballer for over 20 years without ever having to step onto the pitch" to "Do female astronauts were bras in space?". Like I said, they discuss all kinds of topics there. ;)

Anyways, I found the picture that I've shown you in a discussion happening in that site. The topic being discussed was "At age 25, would you pursue a good paying corporate job that makes you unhappy or a hobby that makes you happy, but has no guarantee to pay the bills?"

Well, just picture me reading that question. A 24 year old guy, in a good paying corporate job, who is partly unhappy because he finds himself not anywhere near where he wanted to be by now. And sad to say, I don't think I'm that good enough at any of my hobbies to earn a penny from it. After all, knowledge in most matter relating to the football club called Arsenal; or knowing how to use the computer in an optimal manner; or writing something every week is not going to make me any money.

Moreover, I don't think I want to make money from them. It's all well and good, if you can work in a field you love, but for people like me, who have a mediocre skill set, it's always safe to make sure that the hobby is just that, a hobby. Something you do to derive pleasure from. Something which strokes your ego. But there was a time when I felt that it was tedious to make an effort to do your hobby.

That was the time when I asked myself this question over and over again - "How do I make myself happy?" That is a question that has plagued the minds of the best. I saw my friends trying for higher studies; trying for high paying jobs; trying to get into government service; trying to follow their dream; trying to go and study abroad; etc etc. I evaluated each option and said "NO" to each. The fact that I had to "try" for them put me off from doing them.

Don't get me wrong. It is not that I'm lazy or anything. I look at where I am now, and I feel that if I step in any other direction to better my career, it'll be asking more of me in return. I won't say that the job that I've and the work that I do are perfect, but, to be honest, it suits me fine.

There is no never-ending, undue pressure on me; the work is always doable; I get my weekends off; I'm valued for the work I do. These are the things I want from my work. Of course, I would love to get paid thrice the money for doing a quarter of this work, but you can't have it all, can you?

It is in this scenario that I accepted my friend's advice to work on my writing skills as a means of improving my look on my life. And what better way to better your writing skills than to write regularly. Jerry Seinfeld is a popular comedian in the Western world, and this is what he had to say about how he continually achieved creative success.

"Seinfeld explained his method for success: each January, he hangs a large year-at-a-glance calendar on his wall and, for every day he wrote new material, he had the exquisite pleasure that can only come from drawing a big red "X" over that day.  Drawing those Xs got to be pretty fun and rewarding, so he kept doing it. Eventually, he began to create a chain of red Xs.

The idea was to never break that chain.

Not only does this approach program the body and mind to sit down and write daily – it also motivates you to continue that beautiful string of big, red Xs. If you don't write one day, you don't get to draw the X."

I came across this after I started the "5 things" series, but I'll gladly accept that this is in fact something I keep in my mind as I continue the series. I know that I might expose myself to ridicule just because I write for the sake of writing, but I feel it is necessary to write something every week. It makes me happy in the sense that I feel like I've met the target that I set for myself.

Speaking of ridicules, "She has a blog, and to tell the truth, it is ten times better than yours."

Let us forget for a moment that this comment is coming from a person actively stalking the said 'she', who is a new joinee at my office; and just concentrate on the last part of that sentence. 'it is ten times better than you.' But just after a short while.

Have you heard about the Infinite Monkey Theorem??

"A monkey hitting keys at random on a typewriter keyboard for an infinite amount of time will almost surely type a given text, such as the complete works of William Shakespeare."

I'm someone who believes very much in the possibility of that happening. So for a person, who believes in the prospect of a monkey outwitting him to full-on literature glory, I'm at peace with the fact that the world contains people better than me.

For a language as widely used as English, there are only 26 letters for you to work with. And with just those handful of letters, it opens up the possibility of a great love story; an emotional prose; a poem describing the beauty of nature; a phrase encapsulating the universal truth; a sentence about the current socio-economic situation; a word on the lifetime achievement of a legend, etc etc.

No where is it written that you can find a gem of a sentence, but at the tip of a genius's pen. What the internet has done is to provide "monkeys" like us a platform to showcase what we have typed. It has opened up our work to an unequal amount of praise and ridicule. It has provided us a way to know how good we are in the eyes of the world.

But if ever someone says to you that your work could improve, never be disheartened. Just realize that you might have to type some more on that typewriter, before you find your own literary gem.

5 things for this week (Part 18)

Something happened last Tuesday. It could have been Wednesday for all I know, but since the event happened during the night when I was lost in sleep, I didn't check whether the hour hand had gone beyond the 12 hour mark or not.

The incident itself was not that big a thing. My fan - the one which provides me with circulated wind, not the one who stalks me - made some weak explosive noises, followed it up by some ghostly moans, and then went about its usual business of being always on the move, rotating endlessly. Even though I was awakened from my slumber, I was too lazy to open my eyes to check out what had happened. Actually, I didn't want to open my eyes and be able to see the "ceiling fan dropping down from the ceiling onto you" nightmare become a reality.

So, I laid there, and lulled myself back to sleep in the cold draft that the villainous machine was producing.

It was only on Wednesday evening that I found out that the explosions and noises from the other night was with regards to the fan blowing its capacitor. To those of you in the dark regarding the electrical miracles that happens in this small machine, the capacitor is required for the starting of the fan. As you would have inferred already, I was left with a defective fan. I decided to get it fixed.

But deciding is one thing; being focussed about it is another; and the actual act of getting things done is Herculean.

You see how this ends up for me right??

It's been three days, and I've been consistent in finding trivial, but convincing reasons to not get it done.

1. "It's raining. How can I go out now?"
2. "I'm an Electrical Engineer. I shouldn't be asking a electrician to do this. I'm gonna do this myself...... right after I finish watching this movie...."
3. "Aahh!!! Leave it. I'll do it tomorrow. It's not like I can't live without it."
4. "So I've bought a capacitor. Seems like I'll have to do this now. But, where do I put this in? I think I'll go and call that electrician. But maybe after taking rest for some time. After all, I'm tired from going out to buy this capacitor."
5. "I think she'll be coming online today. Which sane man will go after fixing a fan, when he has a chance to do something better?"

[Don't you worry. Those are not the "5 things" for this week.]

This is on top of the fact that I'm currently sleeping in the hall on a sofa, which is five and a half foot long. This leaves my head and feet hanging out of its two ends, giving me cramps when I wake up every morning. I used to sleep by 11-11.30, but since I had to shift into the hall, I don't sleep before 12.30, because someone would be out there talking/doing stuff.

You see, even the physical discomforts I've had to face aren't stopping me from being who I really am. So, who am I?

Just kidding!!!

I'm a Procrastinator - one who religiously follows the below mentioned universal principle as dictated by the laws of Procrastination.

Now, to put this whole saga in prespective. I told you last Friday that I was going to do a back-to-back blog fest on Football.

I didn't.

The irony is that I spent the weekend playing FIFA instead of completing the blog. And then, I "procrastinated" over the whole week, making sure that it is as it was before - a half finished blog. And it joins the not-so-elite club of over a dozen blogs, who are still waiting to be completed; some of them, for more than a year.

So, this isn't me giving you an excuse/explanation for not writing that blog. This is just what I thought as I brooded over the ever growing "Drafts" section in this blog. This is this week's theme - Procrastination.

So, let's begin shall we??

Did you know...

1. ...that we procrasinators are not that easily mended?

Society has always been about efficiency and maximization and hard work in every sphere of life. So, procrastinators have always been held in contempt. We have people imploring us to be better since forever. From Horace in 65BC - "Tear thyself from delay" to Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in the 20th century - "It is only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth - and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up - that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." 

They've all tried to eradict what one among them called is the gravest disease to inflict man kind. But even today, among the people out there, there are more procrastinators than not. Why so, you ask? Because being lazy is awesome!! And easy!! :D

2. ...that I'm on African time?

Before any racially charged thoughts start filling your mind, how about you click that link?

This "time" isn't dependent on a race/region. This is what you can call a lifestyle, adopted initially by some people in the African continent. The lifestyle is heavily based on Procrastination. It includes "the more leisurely, relaxed and less rigourously scheduled lifestyle found in African Countries".

But be careful of where you use this word. In the current phase of its expansion, the English language uses this phrase as a derogatory term to describe those people who are inherently incapable of meeting targets/deadlines/appointments.

3. ...that "Prevention is better than cure" is something we are strongly against?

Last week, one of my friend fell down from the bike, and got a big enough scratch on his right arm. Instead of taking him to the hospital, we decided to do some home medicine - rub some dettol on the wound and then forget about it.

In two days time, it made my friend very aware of its existence by swelling up and leaking pus. We then took him to a doctor, who went on to perform what can only be called a medically approved torture on it. He poured various burning liquids on it; started rubbing on the wound like you would rub on the stain on the plate which refuses to go away; poured some acid on it; and topped it off by applying Betadine.

Needless to say, the Hemophobic me almost went into a Syncope. (That is me going all medical on you!!!)

The moral is "Prevention is always better than the cure". But no use saying that to a procrastinator.

4. ...that there are fifteen instances of the word "Procrastinate" in this whole blog?

Now, why is this so important. It is just to show you that even though I'm a procrastinator, I can be arsed to do more. I wanted to check how many times that word was used in this blog. But instead of using the "find" option to ease my task, I decided to "challenge" myself by counting it one by one. And I arrived at this number. So, it's not like all hope is lost in our case. We can be made to do work. But there should be rewards and perks - like having a mutually acceptable amount of cash transferred into your account at the end of every month. That really gets us going.

P.S. The perk in counting "Procrastinate" one by one, was to counter check the grammar and spelling of this post. I've been getting reviews that I should spell check and proof read at least once before I post. (-_-)

5. ...that "Good things take time" is the mantra we use?

A distorted version of "Good things come to those who wait". This phrase lauds the virtue of patience you will find in a man, who keeps on doing what he does, irrespective of the result. This is equally applicable to a hard working man, as also to someone, who procrastintes (is too lazy to get off his ass). 

Missed deadlines, physical hardships, broken relations and what not can never break our spirit to continue to be in our state of rest. All those things might scare us at first, they might drive us mad, but in the end, we'll look it in the eyes and say, "Meh!!"

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By the way, I may be procrastinator. I may continually keep breaking my promises. But please do give me credit where I'm due.

Some four months back, I was crazy enough to suggest that I would blog about "5 things" every week. Given my track record, it shouldn't have gone beyond two weeks tops. But somehow or the other, I'm compelled by some unknown force to make these posts. That force provides me the inspiration, the topics, the sentences, and the words. I am merely its instrument.

Or maybe, my multiple personalities might have held a meeting and arrived at the decision that this blog doesn't come under the purview of the Procrastinator in me.

Either way, it is nothing short of a miracle. This series rolls on. And I hope to be able to keep entertaining you with this.

[There, I did it]

Good things come to those who wait, right?

Well, wait for me till next week then.

Have a great Weekend!!!

04-08-2013... UPDATE - The fan was fixed by yours truly. I think that'll be enough to prop up my professional ego for a few months.

5 things for this week (Part 17)

My affair with her is a classic illicit story, if any. Even though it was short lived, what we had was spiky, lusty, beautiful and more, up until the last moment, when the roof fell over our heads, reminding us both that we were never meant to be together, at least in a physical sense. That doesn't mean that we are not flirting anymore.

To avoid any unnecessary assumptions from your part as to who she is, I would like to let you know that "she" here means FOOTBALL - the one true love I have now.

My feet zombie walk towards a football on seeing one; I still watch from the sidelines as those more fortunate than me knock around the ball, and show some skill for a good measure; I FOLLOW a football team to the little bits of news that come out from it; I still wish I hadn't done that simple turn on that fateful day - then maybe, I could have still played today.

That was just the trailer. I started writing out the whole script for this one, and found that it was too long for the regular readers, who usually come here for the "5 things" post. So, I'll doing two posts today.

Doesn't that make you happy? Doesn't it just spice up your mood to know that you are getting double of what you thought you were getting? Well, if it doesn't, I'm very sorry, you are getting two posts none the less.

So this week's theme is football, and some (in)famous incidents and facts and proceedings, that have happened in it over its long history.

I'm going to overlook the obvious candidates for the same like the Hand of GOD (Maradona), the infamous headbutt (Zidane), the other hand in the other world cup (Suarez) and so on. So, bear with me, for round one, as I tell you 5 things you must not have known about football. And in round two, I'll set off on a rant, with you tagging along hopefully, as I recall the brief, though eventful history I've with football.

Shall we begin then??

Did you know...

1. ...that Messi is the highest earner in football at $41m every year?

Well, this isn't a surprise to anyone. He scores all those goals; wins all those awards and accolades and has won every possible title with his club. And no one will hold a grudge against him getting paid to be a top class entertainer. By the way, for those of you who want that amount in rupees, that equates to about Rs.237 crores. And this is just what he earns as salary from his contract with his club. On top of this comes bonuses included in his contract, the deals he would have with kit makers for his boots and all; the other commercial deals he would have signed on for.

Just to put the $41m in perspective, the salary he earns is more than the GDP for this country.

P.S. This is an extra bit. The professional football players get paid on a weekly basis. They join a club on a contract that runs for a specified amount of time (varies from 6 months to 5 years). And since they are pretty useless in their field after 35 years of age, they try to get obscene amounts of salary during their playing career.

2. ...that there is a person who has scored in twenty consecutive seasons for the same football club?

Given that the shelf life of an average footballer at the top level is around 15 years, you have to appericiate the commitment, dedication and skill of a person who plays at that level for 20 years. And in these days of degenerating loyalities, to have played for the same club for those two decades is also no mean feat. And when you play for the same club, in the top flight, for 20 consecutive years, and manage to score atleast one goal in every season, then you are no less than exceptional.

By the way, the name is Ryan Giggs, who plays for Manchester United in the English Premier League.

3. ...that a guy lived as a professional footballer for 20 years, without playing a single match?

Now hear an opposite case. This happened in Brazil some three decades back. This guy used to get friendly with famous professionals, and use them to get 'trial contracts' at their club. He would then ask them to give him time to hone his fitness, and would waste a month or two in that by just running around. When they asked him to play, he would run fast/kick the ball hard, then complain about a hamstring injury (which couldn't be diagnosed by a medical team in that era). Then he would lay on the injury table for a few months, and repeat the same - at the same or a different club.

4. ...that there is a Golden Premier League Trophy?

Yes. I'm going for a bit of personal glory. Normal trophies are not made of gold, but the English FA decided to honour the Arsenal team of 2003-04 season with a golden trophy. Why you ask? Because they went a whole premier league season unbeaten. That is 38 games in a row. Over three seasons, they went 49 games unbeaten in a row.

5. ...that football is the most followed sport in the world?

Football can be passionate like 95000 fans in Australia singing what can be called the club's theme song in unison. Football can be crazy like this save or this penalty kick. It can be controversial, it can be exhilarating, it can be unifying, it can be divisive. It can be everything. And that's what it is one of the most followed sport in the world.

In recent times, the Juventus team went 49 games unbeaten in the Seria A Italian League.

I'll be back with more in the next blog, as soon as it is finished.

That's all folks!!
Have a great weekend!!!

5 things for this week (Part 16)

If you ride a bike or a car, even occasionally, you would be familiar with the feeling of frustration at being in the front of the line at a red light. It's one thing to get stuck for 100 odd seconds in the middle of the traffic, and an entirely different scene to be at the front of it, knowing that even a short burst of speed earlier, would have saved you that much time.

Normally, not much thought is given to what you would do with a hundred seconds so saved, other than spend it at another red light. But that doesn't stop us from trying to get across that short stretch at full speed, lest we rue the missed opportunity.

So, on my way to office today morning, as I turned a corner onto the last red light on my route, I saw that I had about 6 seconds, plus pause time, to get across some 300 odd meters. Normally, I would have got through, but a certain Esteem was hell bent on making it difficult for me. He manoeuvred left and right, and right and left, before I could free myself from him, but by then, he had made sure that I was left at the front of the queue.

That hundred odd seconds that I spent there made sure that I got to see a really beautiful gal going in a rickshaw at the next junction, as well as, making sure that I arrived at the gate of my office at the exact moment when the cleaner was coming out with the broom. An inauspicious start, if any.

I was late by one minute; there was talk of the increment letter being handed out today - they didn't; the work I was doing for submitting on Monday, had to be restarted cos revised input was received from Korea; I spilled coffee on the jeans I washed yesterday; and more.

Even though I could easily blame getting stuck in that traffic light for all this, I don't. Because of two reasons...

a. I am a 'destiny-ist'. Whatever is meant to happen, will happen. I can't change it. Even if I could make myself not get stuck there, I'm pretty sure that this is how it would have all ended up.

b. I've seen the Malayalam Movie 'Traffic'. The guy who tries to jump the traffic light like this doesn't end up in that good a position to my liking (dead).

You would be thinking as to why this little incident is such a big thing to me. It's because I was forgetting the reason number two (go ahead, laugh at that).

Now, the memory of this incident will remain with me, for a short time at least, reminding me that there’s nothing to be gained by pitching your skills against traffic lights. Every memory teaches you something. The best lessons in life are taught and kept alive by memories.

And this week, we will be going through, what I consider to be, my top five memories.

Did you know..

1. …that pain is necessary in the pursuit of happiness?

This is with respect to me getting my job at GS during the final year at college. As if the continuous heartbreaks I received from various corporate entities weren’t enough, my friend (who was the Placement Coordinator) decided to let me know of the good news that I got into GS, by leaving his hand impression across my backbone.

The pain from it was quickly forgotten though, not because of the glad news I had just received, but thanks to the series of slaps, kicks and hits I received as a mark of congratulations from my other friends.

P.S. I wasn't laughing like this maniac.

2. …that change is going to happen no matter what, and that you are gonna end up liking it?

You see your grandmother presented with a white towel bundle. You then continue to peek inside that bundle to see something reminiscent of the human species. You are then told that this is your brother and that you have to take care of him.

That must have been the first major change in my life, because this is the earliest thing I can remember about it. It has been nearly two decades since, but as I look back upon it now, it was all for the best.

3. …that you should be happy that you are here?

The time is towards the end of October 2011, and the place is Auli, near Badrinath. Yeah, the same area which was recently flooded. Six guys had travelled through and around mountains to reach a lonely campsite. There were sightings of a bear in the past few days in that area; the food that they bought with them was scarce; there wasn’t enough firewood to last the night; the cold winter winds were bellowing against them; basically, it was a bad idea.

But at 9pm that night, after eating whatever we had, and after lulling our campfire to sleep with some select songs, we lay on the uneven ground looking up at the sky. That’s when I saw, till date, the most beautiful sight I’ve ever seen.

I’ve heard/read/seen in pictures about the beauty of the uninhibited night sky. They say that the countless stars make your head swoon. They write that the light coming from therein overwhelms you. They show that this is a place you must visit before your last breath. The sight that lay before me was all that and more.

And then, rising above the worries that I had for my life, was a feeling of happiness of being there.

P.S. In case you are hard of sight, this is the next day morning.

4. ...that bad things happen to you, even if you did no wrong?

More importantly, did you know that I was privy to the first conceptual model of the Nano?

This happened when I first came to the Capital city of India in 2000. Had I known then that I would spend so much time here in the future, I wouldn't have gone out to see the city in that January cold; but I did. After covering Qutub Minar, and just after bidding goodbye to the Red Fort, as we were making our way to the Lotus Temple, the Tata Sumo we were travelling in was involved in an accident.

Not our fault, but the guy in front, cruising at around 60 kmph, decided that he wanted to check his brakes for full stopping at that speed. What happened was that we bumped into him; the Maruti 800 behind us crashed into ours; and the bus behind that car crashed into it. And as soon as the that happened, the guy in front, left the scene as soon as he could.

Fortunately, no one was hurt. I was sitting at the back of the Sumo, and should have been more concerned for myself, but I felt bad for the guy driving the 800. That car was brand new - it still had it's temporary number plate - and it was crushed from both sides. I can always crack a joke, saying that it looked like a Nano, but it was a cruel example of a recurring phenomenon - bad things happen can anyone, anytime.

5. ...that change comes from within?

This is from my current favourite saying, which was in turn taken up from this pic.

I think I'll just leave you with that. I've been writing more on that one saying for the past three weeks. Hopefully, I'll post it on Monday.

Well, that's all for this week folks.

Have a great Weekend!!!

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In line with the fact that the "5 things" I'm sharing with you weekly, wasn't necessarily learned that week, I was hoping to change the title for this series to "5 things for this week". Having got enough positive feedback for that idea, we'll be filing the posts in the series in that name from now on.

Once again, thanks for the feedback and the clicks. Keep them coming.

Cheerio!!